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Join therapists Christy Wilkie and Lucas Mitzel as they bring mental and behavioral health discussions into the spotlight. From tackling the ups and downs of parenting to exploring the world of dating and relationships to unpacking serious topics like anxiety and depression, this entertaining duo will help you feel less alone in life’s journey and bring a little laughter to your day.
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Jul 28, 2026
Jul 28, 2026
42 min
In this episode of "Is It Just Me?", hosts Lucas and Christy dive into the complexities and challenges of growing up. From making career decisions with limited information to disrupting life patterns that no longer serve us, they explore how these transitions can feel overwhelming yet are essential for personal growth. With a focus on mental health, they provide insights, encouragement, and practical advice for anyone struggling with the uncertainties of adulthood. Join the conversation and discover that you’re not alone in navigating these pivotal life stages.

May 21, 2026
May 21, 2026
48 min
In this episode of "Is It Just Me?", hosts Lucas and Christy dive into the importance of validation in our lives. They discuss how feeling understood and acknowledged can disrupt unhelpful life patterns and support emotional healing. Sharing relatable insights from their experiences in mental health care, they emphasize how focusing on feelings rather than arguments can ease emotional pain and foster quick recovery. Whether you struggle with self-doubt or want to improve your relationships, this episode offers helpful perspectives on seeking and providing validation to boost mental well-being.

Mar 23, 2026
Mar 23, 2026
37 min
In this episode, Christy and Lucas dive into the significance of friendship and how meaningful connections shape our lives. Their personal stories and valuable insights highlight the transformative power of strong, supportive friendships. Whether you’re looking to strengthen existing bonds or forge new ones, this episode offers practical advice for building friendships that last.

Jan 15, 2026
Jan 15, 2026
45 min
In this episode, Christy and Lucas dive deep into the practice of sleep hygiene and its crucial role in promoting better sleep and overall health. From the environment you create to the routines you follow before bedtime, they explore practical strategies to enhance your quality of rest. Whether you struggle with falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up refreshed, this episode equips you with evidence-backed tips and tools to improve your nightly rituals and make restful sleep an achievable goal.

Nov 13, 2025
Nov 13, 2025
46 min
In this episode of the Is It Just Me? podcast, hosts Lucas and Christy explore the complexities of setting boundaries in various relationships—whether with family, friends, or colleagues. They explore why boundaries can be so challenging to establish, the importance of identifying the value and meaning of your relationships first, and how to prepare for different emotional responses. Christy emphasizes that building self-confidence and identity are crucial starting points for healthy boundary setting. Tune in for insightful discussions, practical tips, and encouragement on creating space that respects your mental and emotional well-being.

Oct 17, 2025
Oct 17, 2025
46 min
In this episode of Is It Just Me?, hosts Christy and Lucas explore the complexities of self-esteem, acknowledging how difficult it can be to truly like ourselves sometimes. They discuss practical strategies for improving self-worth, including the power of just taking action and exposing yourself to things that might scare you. The conversation also touches on the impact of social media on our perceptions and self-confidence. Throughout the episode, listeners are encouraged to embrace their unique journeys, ask crucial questions about their experiences, and reach out for support when needed.

Sep 18, 2025
Sep 18, 2025
45 min
In this episode of "Is It Just Me?" hosts Lucas and Christy explore the complexities of living with chronic pain and its impact on mental health. They discuss the daily challenges faced by those impacted, the importance of communication with employers and loved ones, and breaking down stigma associated with chronic pain. Drawing from personal experiences and supportive insights, this episode aims to provide education, diminish myths, and encourage listeners to seek validation and support in managing their chronic pain journeys.

Aug 21, 2025
Aug 21, 2025
49 min
In this episode of Is It Just Me?, hosts Lucas and Christy dive into the complex and often misunderstood nature of grief. Moving beyond the traditional five stages, they discuss how grief is a fluid, non-linear experience with emotions that can quickly flip back and forth. Listeners will gain insight into why grief is so difficult and be encouraged to accept the unpredictable energy that comes with loss. The hosts also emphasize the importance of breaking life patterns that no longer serve us to heal and grow through grief.

"Is It Just Me?" is published by Dakota Family Services
Dakota Family Services is a highly trusted and respected psychology, psychiatry, and therapy clinic licensed that provides excellent, integrated mental health care for children, adolescents, and adults.
To learn more about the clinic's team of highly-trained, compassionate mental health professionals, or to make an appointment, go to DakotaFamilyServices.org or call 1-800-201-6495.
